Why is considered sexy for a woman to have a butt the size of a young guy (boy)? I just saw a rear view of Cameron Diaz in a magazine in a bikini and she was described as "sexy". Her butt is about the same size as my son's. He's not yet a teenager. Can you men tell me what the attraction is cause I find it a bit creepy that an adult should be attracted to someone who has in effect a "guys bum". |
| why are you looking at your sons bum ? |
Give me an honest answer as to when or where did it start with young boys wearing their pants below the butt? I try to tell the male students I come in contact with it isn't appropriate to wear them in that way. I'm trying to prepare them for the adult working world. They feel it is okay. Some people have told me it started in the prisons and has a sexual meaning, while others say it began back in the '70's. So please, no jokes, insults, etc. Just an honest and complete answer. If there is a website I can go to please let me know. I'm sure some of you feel it isn't a problem but I have the task of trying to get these young men ready for job interviews. Thanks for your assistance. |
well, there are a couple of different theories, but i think it was just a combination of the two. one, you've already mentioned... was to be like the prisoners who were not given belts and used it as a fashion statement to mock the guards. the second, was because jeans at the time were made for a white man's body (no butt), so they would buy the jeans many sizes too big and sag them.
personally, i hate the look of sagging jeans... however, i do believe that high school is a time for guys to express themselves, and if it's not against the dress code then they should be able to wear whatever fits into the code. they have plenty of time to be grown up and conform to our image. when else will they be able to look like idiots? between sagging pants and the emo boys wearing makeup... they are just finding their identity, even tho it seems stupid and extreme sometimes. i think that forcing conformity on them can be detrimental to their independence as an adult. and yes, one could argue that following the crowd is just another way of conforming. but, in their minds they at least feel like an individual.
i'm in the military and love it when we get in guys who grew up in private schools or any "cookie cutter" lifestyle. it makes my life super easy to train them. but honestly, the ones who turn out to be the best leaders are the ones that give me so much trouble in the beginning. with all their attitude and inability to follow the rules... i hate them! but, once they are finally ready, they are the ones with the innovative ideas and the ability to lead with confidence rather than micro-manage.
wow, i really didn't mean post a novel. i got a little carried away. i'm sure most of this isn't what you wanted to read. sorry about that. |
How common is it that a little boy whould stick a toy in their butt..with no previous teachings? my two year old son...out of the blue today...pulled down his pants and then stucka toy in his butt....does this mean that he has learned this action from someone else? ...im worried that my son may be being molested.......im not sure if it is common for a young boy to do something like this on their own...as i am a first time mother.... |
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Is it okay if I am attracted to young good looking girlish boys than the girls? Am I Gay ? Is it ok to be Gay? I do not enjoy sex with my wife or the girlfriends, now a days. However, I like to watch round butts of young boys and feel to make love with them. Should I go ahead? Is it okay to be a Gay or it is harmful in anyway to either partner? |
May be ok, but what about health risks?
Unnatural sex is 'high-risk behaviour' and it can give rise to medical complications. There could be severe medical complications arising out of "consensual anal sex", whether between two homosexuals, or even when it has been compelled on a woman by a man. Masters & Johnson in their book on 'Sex and Human Loving' warn that because bacteria are naturally present in the anus, anything that has been inserted into the anus if subsequently put into the vagina, can cause severe vaginal infections. Therefore moving from anal intercourse to vaginal intercourse is extremely hazardous. The rate of transmission of HIV (and other STDs) through anal sex is much higher compared to other penetrative sexual acts. Penetrating the penis in one male anal and then in another male anal also is equally risky. It will be enlightening to know that the condom, which is thought to be a means of "so-called safe sex", is not designed for anal sex by the manufacturers. Anal sex involves a totally different kind of pressure dynamics, and the latex or polyurethane condoms are not manufactured keeping these pressure dynamics in mind. The condom is far more likely to get torn during anal sex (thus paving the way for the transmission of HIV/AIDS and other STDs).Therefore anal sex even with the use of a condom is definitely a "high risk behavior".
Okay, I think this has become a lengthy lecture...But I am sure it will help you and all others who are practicing or thinking to practice same sex relationship, even with consent of both the adults... You are matured enough so decide which way to go....God bless you.... |
Is it ok to be a Gay? I feel I am attracted to young boys, I do not enjoy sex with girls.? I have a couple of girl friends, with whom I spent some intimate moments. Now I feel I am not enjoying sex with any of them. Not even with my wife. I am getting aroused by seeing good rounded butts of young boys. I feel I am being converted into Gay. Feeling confused, hence correct advice needed. |
| "No its not ok to be its no natural and the devil is the author of confusion and thats why you are just struggling with your sexuallity. people always say that it is ok to be gay and they accept it as another alternative way to live. the world is just brainwashing our minds to think that it is ok which its not.." I completely agree with this man. It's not ok to be gay! Man and woman have been made for each other but not man for man! IT IS NOT OK TO BE GAY!!!!!!!! |
What did the young boy tell his dad while the muscled-built mean cop is writing up a speeding ticket? DADDY! Tell the policeman he's georgous & has a nice butt!! -It always works for mommy!....
(what would you do if your son told you that while being pulled over?) |
| LOL, I know I would tell the cop that. But I know I'd be talkin with the old lady when I got home. |
How do you react if a boy 12 or under pinches your behind? Are you flattered? I admit I often wear tight black spandex as pants and have a nice butt so I do attract attention from the opposite sex. I'm a single woman in her mid-30s, but look more like 25. In one incident about a year and a half ago while I was wearing very tight spandex, a boy about 12 pinched my butt while I was walking down the street. I was very embarrassed at first; he tried to walk away but I caught up with him and told him that what he did was wrong and very naughty. Still, I thanked him and told him I was very flattered, and he told me "you look nice". I told him girls won't like you if you do things like that, and everyone will think you're bad.
Amazingly, about 2 weeks ago(wearing my ultra-tight black spandex, without anything long enough to cover my behind), an 11 year old boy pinched my butt while I was browsing outside the bookstore and commented that I look "very beautiful". I felt shocked and very awkward and gave him a lecture about how to treat ladies, and that how they dress doesn't matter. Still, he was adorable and seemed so innocent and probably didn't mean any harm so I thanked him for his compliments and for admiring my butt. I told him to promise me he would never do anything like that again, and to told him to admire women from afar, not to touch anything.
Did I handle these situations correctly? How would you have reacted? How do you react to very young boys who admire you or stare at you? Please note I would never "date" a guy or teenager, and only go out with men my own age or a little younger. |
Um, it sounds to me like you handled it pretty well.
You explained to each youngster why they shouldn't do what they did - without jumping down their throats or scaring them. Kids are just curious and that's how they learn.
You also pointed out in your own way that there's nothing wrong with having admiration for the female form. You didn't make it seem "dirty" or "unnatural" and that's good.
Also, there's nothing wrong with being flattered by honest admiration - from anybody:
I can recall a few occasions where young girls have had crushes on me or liked me. I thought that those instances were sweet and cute. I didn't mind it because I understood it (I was young once too).
I've had a couple of instances where a homosexual male tried to hit on me. Neither occurrence bothered me and I was even mildly flattered - but I politely turned them down because of the simple fact that I'm straight.
But yeah, I think that you handled it pretty well. |
Books for young boys about keeping hands to themselves? I have a 7 year old son. We just moved to a new neighborhood with tons of boys around his age. Most of the boys have older brothers and they are all very aggressive. I understand that boys will be boys but my son has started to develop their aggressive behavior like wrestling and rough housing. He has also started talking about "butts" and "wieners". Does anyone have any recommendations for books about keeping your hands to yourself? I would like to stop this before it gets worse. I fear he may make a comment or accidentally touch someone inappropriately and get in serious trouble. |
I don't know about books but why not, every time he starts the aggressive behaviour punish him. It could be time out for 7 minutes or no tv for 10 minutes or similar. Then he'll learn for naughty behaviour he will be punished and he's better of behaving.
As for saying butts or wieners, why not correct him. Tell him that it's not a butt, but a bottom, it's not a wiener, it's a penis (or willy or whatever you call it)
My oldest started misbehaving when she started school and started behaviour I didn't like so I told her that I didn't like it and if she did it again, she would go into time out. I had to put her into time out a couple of times and she soon learnt that that behaviour wasn't allowed and now doesn't do it.
Good luck.
KD |
Do you think its too early for a boy in kindergarten to jack off? his parents dont monitor anything the boy watches and im sure hes seen pornos already. he smacks girls butts in the grocery store and him and another younger boy have already messed around, touching each other, not sex. he was upset after doing it though. dont you think this is a little too early for stuff like this? |
| This is horrible! I don't like to share this but I feel that I just must, I was raped at age 8 by a 10 yr old boy wh displayed the same things at a young age. He was exposed to porn and God knows what else...I wish someone would have removed him from his parents a this not only was the cause of his spiral downward in life but scared me for as well. Please do something about it before he hurts someone else! You never know, e might or might not g down the same road as the boy who hurt me but do you really wanna take that chance? |
Prince Albert has asked why Mr Conor G requires young boys to wear surgical gloves over their boxing gloves? he says it is easier UTA butt, is it only that state? |
| Ease of entry into the required state. |