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How do I get my anal hole tight? I am gay and have anal sex with my bf, but now my hole isn't as tight as it was, so I am just wondering if there is a cream out there or something that would make it tighter again? | | yeah.,stop having sex for a while and bath your anus in salt water ,salt water firms the skin. | Can you be too tight for anal? I think I might be too tight to have anal sex. Does everyone think that way? | | Maybe. | How do u keep your anal sphincters still tight if u have anal sex quite often? is similar excersice like for vaginal sphincter... tighten and loosen for 10 minutes everyday helpful??? or is there any other procedures to do????? | You need to use either a bottle , or, better yet, a baseball bat to exercise your anus, just like women exercise their vagina.
There are exercises for gay men that you can do to develop your anal muscles so you can actively stimulate a penis with your anal muscles - its called anal massage of partners penis. | Partner too tight for anal? Me and my partner have been having trouble when attempting anal sex. Were both gay males, very healthy, in our early 20's, and no real health problems. We have had sex before with him as the top, but I would much more prefer to top and he would prefer to bottom. The problem comes that when I go to top, its very hard to get in, and once I am in, I can not really thrust because I just basically get pushed out very quickly. Its so tight and hard to really move in there at all. We have tried multiple positions, tried it drunk, tried it many times over about three months now and still have not been able to top him. Is it something with me? Maybe a health issue on his part we don't know about? We really love each other alot, but this has been becoming a bit more of a problem in our relationship lately : ( | He needs to learn how to relax. Try practicing with a dildo before you try to top him. Get him really opened up first.
Fifteen or twenty minutes of foreplay with a dildo that is your size or maybe even a bit bigger should do the trick. | Anal sex, not as tight after the first time? Ok so me and my fiance had anal sex for the first time and he loved how tight it was....we did it the next day...and it wasnt so tight so he didnt enjoy it as much....will it tighten after a few days? or is that how tight its going to be from now on???
xox All answers are appriciated x | The sphincter, as well as the vagina, is a muscle. It's tight if it's tense; the more relaxed it is, the less tight. It was probably not as tight the second time because you were less nervous and more relaxed. It probably felt better for you the second time.
It's a muscle... and you have control over it.
So if you want your anus to be tight, flex your muscles. You can pretty much grab your partner's penis as tightly as you want.
What I'm missing in your story is how *you* liked it. I'm hoping you're not just doing this for him! Are you enjoying it at all?
Your finance seems to have an obsession with tightness. Could it be that he is circumcised and his penis is not all that sensitive? Or perhaps he's mainly used to masturbation, and the tight feeling of his own hand.
I hope he'll adjust to having sex with you, and appreciate the finer feelings that it offers, apart from tightness (which generally means that a woman is not ready for sex). | How tight should anal sex be? I want to know the truth, when she says I am the first man to touch under her panties ever. well she does have a huge gigantic butt at 18! however..
when we just had anal sex today with my girlfriend, and it was first time for me to do this. and... using lots of delay gel lube, which has strong numbing effect, I could finger with1 and then like 15 seconds after that with 2 and then 3 fingers, and in less than 1 minute from the start my whole whole thing was in there, and I felt it was so loose in her butt that I could add 2 more fingers next to my penis inside of there. And till the end she did not even say a single ouch, even she told me it's not in there! when it reaaaally was! I don't know how numbing gels work, but I'm very concerned of her sincerity. Mine is 5 inches thick.
If anyone had anal before, please tell me should it be so easy to do the first first time ?
By the way, she did not fear it at all, told me to do anal instead of the vaginal, because she wants to remain virgin. it's complicated where I live, here in Iran, many girls do anal at early ages to keep so-called virginity for wedding night. Poor husbands here! Bad news for me, I wanna marry her. | Anal should be tight and it should hurt!
She may have masturbated in her anus, which could make it looser. Also, all girls are different...sizes lol.
But still, I have had anal about 5 times with my boyfriend and it still hurts! It hurts when he puts just one finger in! | Too tight for anal sex? Is it possible? I fear I might be... | | Same answer as your other question P&P :-) |
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