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Has anyone tried anal for the first time when they are over 40? Anyone out there tried anal for the first time when they are older?
Just trying to gauge my chances of ever knowing what it's like. | | O yea i have, at the beginning it hard but he was gentle with me then it was smooth sailing after that. you have that special someone to share that with not just any one but hey different stokes for different folks.by the way im 46 | Cat's anal sac problem, how fast can her open wound heal? prior to my previous question, my cat is 11 years old and recently she got an anus sac problem, by the time I rushed her to vet she already licked it opened, so vet gave meds and also cream and give her a transparent plastic elizabethan collar to wear on till our next appointment which is one week later. Vet says if by then her wound's not okay then she got to stitch it back for her.
Now two days have past, though I did use lotion to clean her wound and put meds cream on it, I see her wound's still quite big, it's bit messy over there so I can't really gauge whether is her wound healing or not. I am also worried I might be using those lotion and cream too much a day, I will do it once every 4 or 5 hours, or whenever I see the cream's gone or there are pus coming out.
-Anyone's cat went through this before? How long would this kind of anal sac wound takes to heal, especially one that had been licked open before seeing the vet?
-If it usually heal fast, then I might consider bringing her to vet earlier to check up. With that collar on she can't lick her wound, but I can't at all times control how she sit, walk, or even run (all these which might affect her wound).
-I read about obese cat gets this anal sac problem more often than normal cat, my cat is not obese, not thin either, more of an average size. Her diet consists of dry and wet canned food, water. My previous cat don't have this problem at all, he's also a house cat, so I wonder did something spark my this cat to have that anal sac problem? Also worried that if this occurs a few times more, I might have to ask vet to perform surgery to remove the glands, coz its making her too uncomfortable when it erupts.
Would appreciate advice, thanks. | | An open, ruptured anal sac can not be "sewn shut", that's crazy talk. It'll have to heal from the inside, out. Oral antibiotics and topical cream is the usual rx for this type of would. In a hospital setting the cat would recieve twice daily hydrotherapy to cleans the wound. If you can do that in your home, that would be ideal. If not, continue with the medications and take your cat back for the follow up exam. If pus is still coming from the wound after you have finished the meds, than your cat may need to have the anal sac removed entirely. Good luck. | I put 6 gauge stretchers in after a month or two of my 8 guages, but my right ear really hurts and bleeds? Every time I go to clean my ear after having started stretching them from 8 gauge to a 6 my right ear is a pain in the ***.
My left ear stretched fine and I can even lightly squeeze a q-tip through it to clean it but my right ear is having none of it. I bought tapers from a small shop downtown calgary and I believe they are wood or close to it.
When I first put them in the right ear wouldn't go as much, and when I went to clean them a couples of having the taper hang out funny I lightly gave the taper a little shove.
It went in but I kinda felt a little pop. I think I may split my ear a little, but would it really still be hurting this much considering I am super anal about cleaning all my piercings?
The swelling has gone down a little but the ear is still tender.
I may be over re-acting but can someone please reassure me I am. Thanks. | | You very well may have torn your lobe, given that you heard a "pop". It is normal for one ear to stretch easier than the other, but it is never good to push tapers in if you know it hurts or if it doesn't simply go in with ease. Stretching is never supposed to be a painful experience! A tear is definitely a painful experience, and if it happened, you risk infection. It's good that you are cleaning it, but that all depends on what you're cleaning it with and how often. Never use alcohol or peroxide to cleanse an infected or torn piercing, it dries it out. Some say to use salt water soaks, but even those can dry it out. The best way to clean it is with regular anti-bacterial soap, make sure it is not scented or fancy. Just plain anti-bacterial hand soap. Also, rub Vitamin E oil on your lobes as well to help heal and also loosen up your piercings for easier stretching. Good luck. | Piercing help!!! (: Come here pleaseee.? I'm getting my side labret pierced tomorrow
you know, not exactly my labret to the side...
kinda like a Monroe on the bottom.
and i'm a little scared, as to what its going to be like...
what gauge is the standard?
and what gauge is the smallest?
how long do i have to wait until its healed?
and finally......
what can i do to NOT have the "ball"
stick out of my chin to look almost unsightly
(like reallllly far out)
if it may happen at all...?
will there be a hole in my face forever if i
decide i want to take it out?
oh yeah, and how much do you think it will
affect my job opportunities?
(i'm a teenager, so there will be no "corporate"
jobs yettt...)
so many questions.
i would be soo grateful for your answers.
sorry i'm so anal.
(:
thanks guys. | a standard lip piercing guage is around 18-14. maybe a 12 as the biggest normal size.. if that makes sense.
healing vairies for different people. i'd say a month or two.
the hole will close up eventually if need be but you may have a small scar. i dont understand your "ball question".. as for jobs it depends where you work and how it looks. if its all dirty and unattractive then you may get rejected or they may say something. if youre clean about and maybe have a small stud or even a retainer you should be fine.
best wishes...
ps. you may want to find all of this out before the day before you get pierced.... just a thought.
hope it looks amazing! | Labret Piercing...HELP!? you know, not exactly my labret to the side...
kinda like a Monroe on the bottom.
and i'm a little scared, as to what its going to be like...
what gauge is the standard?
and what gauge is the smallest?
how long do i have to wait until its healed?
and finally......
what can i do to NOT have the "ball"
stick out of my chin to look almost unsightly
(like reallllly far out)
if it may happen at all...?
oh yeah, and if i want to take it out,
will there be a hole in my face forever??
so many questions.
i would be soo grateful for your answers.
sorry i'm so anal.
(:
thanks guys. | i dont know the answers to these questions LOL sorry!
but if you go to the piercing or tattoo shop nearest you they'll be able to answer all these and more! :) | I'm getting my side labret pierced...? you know, not exactly my labret to the side...
kinda like a Monroe on the bottom.
and i'm a little scared, as to what its going to be like...
what gauge is the standard?
and what gauge is the smallest?
how long do i have to wait until its healed?
and finally......
what can i do to NOT have the "ball"
stick out of my chin to look almost unsightly
(like reallllly far out)
if it may happen at all...?
so many questions.
i would be soo grateful for your answers.
sorry i'm so anal.
(:
thanks guys. | I have never had the upper lip pierced, but I have been pierced on the lower 6 times, (3 piercings, all three redone twice, one on each side and one in the middle).
The smallest one will normally go is 18 Gauge, but I have always done 14 Gauge, which is usually standard. Lips take a while to heal, mine on either side were really hard to heal, I cannot heal with hoops. If you get pierced with a post, it will have to be long until the swelling goes down. As my Labret healed, I was able to put in a smaller and smaller post, now it does not really stick out at all.
If you have more questions just ask, I have been pierced over 23 times and one of my old friends was a piercer and she taught me a lot.
Cheers | Poked my gf hard in the butt during sex? Sorry for the crude question title, but that's what I need to ask about. My gf and I were having sex, pretty hot and heavy, and at the very end I accidentally thrust hard into her rear. Now, we've had anal sex before, but she was unprepared for this and it was totally accidental. Understandably, she's in a lot of pain, and there's been a little bleeding. It's been about 6 hours now, and she wants to know how long she can expect to hurt for, if there's anything to do to help, if there's any risk of infection, anything that might be helpful. I tried to gauge how much blood there was, and I think there was a bit at first, and now it's just spotting. She's also a bit worried about the next time she has to use the restroom. Any information would be appreciated. | It has happened to many couples and unfortunately it is just going to hurt for a while. She can take ibuprofen but no aspirin as it will increase bleeding.
As long as her bleeding is minor I suspect she will simply have a skin tear and very bruised muscle. Warm baths may bring some comfort she can also try cold packs ot see if they help. She should stay hydrated!
She may have some moderate pain and minor bleeding with the next few bowel movements but I suspect they pain will less than she expects. | Straight Males, homophobes or not, read and thought? Found on scientific america!
"I wish I could say that I decided to come out of the closet in my early twenties for more admirable reasons—such as for love or the principle of the thing. But the truth is that passing for a straight person had become more of a hassle than I figured it was worth. Since the third grade, I’d spent too many valuable cognitive resources concocting deceptive schemes to cover up the fact that I was gay.
In fact, my earliest conscious tactic to hide my homosexuality involved being outlandishly homophobic. When I was eight years old, I figured that if I used the word “fag” a lot and on every possible occasion expressed my repugnance for gay people, others would obviously think I was straight. But, although it sounded good in theory, I wasn’t very hostile by temperament and I had trouble channeling my fictitious outrage into convincing practice.
I may have failed as a homophobe, but unfortunately, many people succeed. And it turns out we may have something in common—many young, homophobic males may secretly harbor homosexual desires (whether they are consciously trying to deceive the world about them as I was or not even aware they exist). One of the most important lines of work in this area dates back to a 1996 article published in The Journal of Abnormal Psychology. In this empirical paper, researchers Henry Adams, Lester Wright, Jr., and Bethany Lohr from the University of Georgia report evidence that homophobic young males may secretly have gay urges.
In this study, 64 self-reported straight males with a mean age of 20.3 years were divided into two groups (“non-homophobic men” and “homophobic men”) on the basis of their scores on a questionnaire measure of aversion to gay males. Here, homophobia was operationally defined as the degree of “dread” experienced when placed in close quarters with a homosexual—basically, how comfortable or uncomfortable the person was in interacting with gay people. (There is debate in the clinical literature about the semantics of this term, with some scholars introducing other constructs such as “homonegativism” to underscore the more cognitive nature of some people’s antigay stance.)
Each participant then agreed to attach a penile plethysmograph to his, well, “lesser self.” According to the authors, this plethysmograph device is “a mercury-in-rubber circumferential strain gauge used to measure erectile responses to sexual stimuli. When attached, changes in the circumference of the penis cause changes in the electrical resistance of the mercury column.” Previous research with this apparatus (the plethsymograph, not the penis—well, actually both) confirmed that significant changes in circumference occur only during sexual stimulation and sleep.
Next, the participants were placed in a private chamber and presented with three 4-minute segments of graphic pornography. The three video snippets represented straight porn (scenes of fellatio and vaginal intercourse), lesbian porn (scenes of cunnilingus or tribadism), and gay male porn (scenes of fellatio and anal intercourse). Following each randomly ordered video presentation, the participant rated how sexually aroused he felt and also his degree of penile erection. Can you guess the results?
Both groups—non-homophobic and homophobic men—showed significant engorgement to the straight and lesbian porn and their subjective ratings of arousal matched their penile plethsymograph measure for these two types of video. However, as predicted, only the homophobic men showed a significant increase in penile circumference in response to the gay male porn: specifically, 26 percent of these homophobic men showed “moderate tumescence” (6-12 mm) to this video and 54 percent showed “definite tumescence” (more than 12 mm). (In contrast, for the non-homophobic men, these percentages were 10 and 24, respectively.) Furthermore, the homophobic men significantly underestimated their degree of sexual arousal to the gay male porn."
From Single, Angry, Straight Male...Seeks Same? by Jesse Berring | | I'm a 17 year old guy, and imm going to tell you what i think about people who are homosexual. I have some friends who are gay, and some family members who are gay. They are just like everyone else. A lot of them aren't the typical douchbags that think they're all tough, which is why they are actually fun to be around. | How we would really react if aliens ever invaded earth? mean how do u think we would really react.
1. white and black come together and gang up on green.
2. after one of their satelites are destroyed france cuts a deal (ww2 style) with the aliens and elects a puppet regime.
3. the arabs charge with derelict soviet space shuttles and go on the greatest suicide run in history
4. the most powerful christian nations in the west, russia and china get taking out fast and the refugees from these countries move to the third world and join with the rest of humanity in resistance and guerilla warfare, in subsaharan jungles, siberian tundras and north african deserts.
5. the church of scientology declares all religions are wrong, and we should worship the aliens as gods. the aliens then make tom cruises their prophet and charge him with exterminating and converting all other religious infidels to the church of scientology.
6. the aliens arrive on earth destroy the most powerful nations before catching a little cold that turns out to be deadly to their race thereby exterminating them. and leaving their advanced technology and out springs new powerful nations. in subsaharan africa arrives the bantu hegemony a xenophobic, restricted, neutral and isolated society. north africa and southern europe becomes the meditteranian alliance. asia and eastern russia becomes the ethnically diverse, siberia-mongolian empire. the rest of europe comes under control of the slavic union. the middle east and northern india comes under the control of the persian aryan nation. the rest of india extending all the way down to austarlia unites to become the dravidian-aboriginal republic, a free and democratic society. while canada mexico and usa unite to become the united tribes of north america an afro-amerindian society with strong indian, anglo and african influences. south america then becomes the new inca empire. and finally the carribean and bahamas and all the surrounding islands becomes the confederated islands of the carribean.
7. or the worst senario the most powerful nations agree to peaceful surrender and help the aliens hunt down their human brothers in the 2nd and third world for anal probing or whatever aliens do.
8. we launch our entire nuclear arsenal at them before they reach earth and destroy them and never knowing why they came here
9. billy bob gets out of his trailer with his 12 gauge and bible and tries to forcefully convert the aliens to cristianity. he then gets vapourized and the the aliens play their own version of cowboys and indians, but this time with the cowboys being the aliens and the indians being the human race.
10.one day everyone is chilling enjoying the planet and them there is a flash and just like that humanity and its civilizations cease to exist
so which do u think is the most likely. u can have more than one option | Love the options you gave; very well considered. *L*
I think #1 is actually the most likely outcome except that i think it would include all the ethnic groups, not just blacks and whites.
When we're faced with something too extraordinary to comprehend, we tend to forget what skin everyone is wearing and, instead, just focus on the fact that we're all humans. Consider the World Trade Towers catastrophe, the OKC bombing, the bombing of Pearl Harbor, and even events as far back as the New Madrid earthquake in the early 1800s. - no ethnic groups those days; just human beings coming together to mourn, to protect the helpless ones, to comfort one another, do what they could to help, etc.
Despite all our differences and cultures, the current divides, what was done to my own People, etc., i still have faith that in the end we are all just people. | What would really happen if aliens invaded the earth? mean how do u think we would really react.
1. white and black come together and gang up on green.
2. after one of their satelites are destroyed france cuts a deal (ww2 style) with the aliens and elects a puppet regime.
3. the arabs charge with derelict soviet space shuttles and go on the greatest suicide run in history
4. the most powerful christian nations in the west, russia and china get taking out fast and the refugees from these countries move to the third world and join with the rest of humanity in resistance and guerilla warfare, in subsaharan jungles, siberian tundras and north african deserts.
5. the church of scientology declares all religions are wrong, and we should worship the aliens as gods. the aliens then make tom cruises their prophet and charge him with exterminating and converting all other religious infidels to the church of scientology.
6. the aliens arrive on earth destroy the most powerful nations before catching a little cold that turns out to be deadly to their race thereby exterminating them. and leaving their advanced technology and out springs new powerful nations. in subsaharan africa arrives the bantu hegemony a xenophobic, restricted, neutral and isolated society. north africa and southern europe becomes the meditteranian alliance. asia and eastern russia becomes the ethnically diverse, siberia-mongolian empire. the rest of europe comes under control of the slavic union. the middle east and northern india comes under the control of the persian aryan nation. the rest of india extending all the way down to austarlia unites to become the dravidian-aboriginal republic, a free and democratic society. while canada mexico and usa unite to become the united tribes of north america an afro-amerindian society with strong indian, anglo and african influences. south america then becomes the new inca empire. and finally the carribean and bahamas and all the surrounding islands becomes the confederated islands of the carribean.
7. or the worst senario the most powerful nations agree to peaceful surrender and help the aliens hunt down their human brothers in the 2nd and third world for anal probing or whatever aliens do.
8. we launch our entire nuclear arsenal at them before they reach earth and destroy them and never knowing why they came here
9. billy bob gets out of his trailer with his 12 gauge and bible and tries to forcefully convert the aliens to cristianity. he then gets vapourized and the the aliens play their own version of cowboys and indians, but this time with the cowboys being the aliens and the indians being the human race.
10.one day everyone is chilling enjoying the planet and them there is a flash and just like that humanity and its civilizations cease to exist
so which do u think is the most likely. u can have more than one option | | zionism |
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